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Don’t put off
talking to your children about alcohol and other
drugs. As early as fourth grade, kids worry about
pressures to try drugs. School programs alone
are not
enough. Parents must become involved, but most
parents are not sure how to tell their
children about drugs. Open communication is
one of the
most effective
tools you can use in helping your child avoid
drug use. Talking freely and really listening
shows children
that they mean a great deal to you.
- Tell
them that you love them and you want them
to be healthy and happy.
- Say you do
not find alcohol and other illegal drugs acceptable.
- Many parents
never state this simple principle. Explain
how this use hurts people. Physical
harm - for example,
AIDS, slowed growth, impaired coordination,
accidents. Emotional harm - sense of not belonging,
isolation,
paranoia. Educational harm - difficulties
remembering and paying attention.
- Discuss the legal issues.
A conviction for a drug offense can lead
to time in prison or
cost someone
a job, driver’s license, or college loan.
- Talk about positive, drug-free
alternatives, and how you can explore them
together. Some
ideas
include sports, reading, movies, bike rides, hikes,
camping,
cooking, games, and concerts. Involve your kids’ friends.
- Calmly
and openly - don’t exaggerate. The
facts speak for themselves.
- Face to face - exchange
information and try to understand each other’s
point of view. Be an active listener and let
your child talk about fears and concerns.
Don’t interrupt and don’t preach.
- Through "teachable
moments" - in contrast
to a formal lecture, use a variety of situations
- television news, TV dramas, books, newspaper.
- Establish
an ongoing conversation rather than giving
a one-time speech.
- Remember that you set the
example. Avoid contradictions between your
words and your actions. And don’t
use illegal drugs, period!
- Be creative! You
and your child might act out various situation
in which one person tries
to pressure
another to take a drug. Figure out two or
three ways to handle
each situation and talk about which works
best. Exchange ideas with other parents.
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